The Ultimate Guide to Teen Slang

Thanks to the influence of music, the internet, apps and celebrities, new words are constantly being introduced to our younger generation. As a result, you may feel totally lost when listening to the youth in your life!

If you're a parent, grandparent, aunt, uncle, coach, teacher etc., check out this sampling of slang words below, or click for a full printable guide to translate what teens are actually saying/posting.

Fun, Harmless, Silly

  • Ate/ate that/ate and left no crumbs = Used when someone does an exceptional job at something. 

  • Bet = A response word synonymous with “Ok, for sure.”

  • Bop = A really good song.

  • Bussin’ = Really, really good, usually used for food.

  • Cap/No Cap = Lying, or not lying.

  • Cheugy = Cringey or awkward, specifically used by Gen Z in reference to trends from the early/mid 2000s.

  • Drip = Refers to a really cool outfit or item of clothing.

  • Finna = A contraction of “fixing to”, meaning “going to (do something)."

  • Say less = A way of saying “I understand.”

  • Weird flex but ok = A sassy or sarcastic response to someone showing off or bragging online.

Be Aware Of

  • AF = As f***

  • Curve = To reject someone romantically or sexually.

  • FOMO = Fear Of Missing Out. Many teens feel this because of social media’s ability to highlight everyone else’s activities. 

  • Ghost = To stop responding to one’s texts, messages, posts, etc., effectively disappearing from their digital world.

  • Menty b = Shorthand for “mental breakdown.” 

  • Receipts = Proof of something (like text screenshots).

  • Slim thick/thicc = This is the “ideal” body type in today’s culture.

  • Thirsty = When someone is desperate for another person. Often refers to one’s sexual appetite or desire to gain attention on social media.

  • Thirst trap = A sexy photograph or flirty message posted on social media that incites others to comment/DM with their interest/attraction.

Red Flags

  • Addy = Short for “Adderall,” a medication for treating ADHD that’s also used recreationally.

  • DTF = Down To F***.

  • FWB = Friends with benefits. This is an undefined sexual relationship that’s generally considered to be more serious than just hooking up, but less serious than an actual committed relationship. 

  • KMS = Kill myself.

  • KYS = Kill yourself.

  • NSFW = Not Safe For Work. Used to mark something as sexually inappropriate or explicit.

  • Pull = A person’s ability to attract sexual partners.

  • Rizz = Comes from “charisma”, but refers to specifically sexual attractiveness or charm. 

  • Smash = To have casual sex.

  • Xan/Xans = Short for Xanax, a sedative used to treat anxiety that’s often used recreationally. Other terms are Xanny, bars, and footballs.

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It is our hope this resource will help you discern when the kids in your life are just engaged in harmless fun and when they’re in need of intervention!

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